diff --git a/server/imserver/player.cc b/server/imserver/player.cc
index 6a70a28..eab2a30 100644
--- a/server/imserver/player.cc
+++ b/server/imserver/player.cc
@@ -540,27 +540,29 @@ void Player::_SS_IM_FriendDeleteRequest(f8::MsgHdr& hdr, const ss::SS_IM_FriendD
                                       });
         #endif
         RemoveFriend(msg.context().user_info().base_data().account_id(), false);
-        a8::Timer::Instance()->AddDeadLineTimerAndAttach
-            (
-             1000 * 2,
-             a8::XParams()
-             .SetSender(this),
-             [] (const a8::XParams& param)
-             {
-                 Player* hum = (Player*)param.sender.GetUserData();
-                 cs::SMFriendAgree respmsg;
-                 respmsg.set_errcode(4);
-                 respmsg.set_errmsg("添加失败,对方的好友数已达到上限");
-                 hum->SendMsg(respmsg);
+        if (msg.flag() == 1) {
+            a8::Timer::Instance()->AddDeadLineTimerAndAttach
+                (
+                 1000 * 2,
+                 a8::XParams()
+                 .SetSender(this),
+                 [] (const a8::XParams& param)
+                 {
+                     Player* hum = (Player*)param.sender.GetUserData();
+                     cs::SMFriendAgree respmsg;
+                     respmsg.set_errcode(4);
+                     respmsg.set_errmsg("添加失败,对方的好友数已达到上限");
+                     hum->SendMsg(respmsg);
 #ifdef DEBUG
-                 a8::UdpLog::Instance()->Debug("添加失败,对方的好友数已达到上限 %s",
-                                               {
-                                                hum->AccountId()
-                                               });
+                     a8::UdpLog::Instance()->Debug("添加失败,对方的好友数已达到上限 %s",
+                                                   {
+                                                    hum->AccountId()
+                                                   });
 #endif
-             },
-             &timer_attacher.timer_list_
-             );
+                 },
+                 &timer_attacher.timer_list_
+                 );
+        }
     }
     f8::MsgHdr* hdr_copy = hdr.Clone();
     ss::SS_IM_FriendDeleteRequest* msg_copy = new ss::SS_IM_FriendDeleteRequest;