diff --git a/server/imserver/player.cc b/server/imserver/player.cc
index 9bacf19..c005eb6 100644
--- a/server/imserver/player.cc
+++ b/server/imserver/player.cc
@@ -285,6 +285,14 @@ void Player::_CMFriendAgree(f8::MsgHdr& hdr, const cs::CMFriendAgree& msg)
     PlayerMgr::Instance()->WatchPlayer(friendobj);
     SendMsg(respmsg);
     MarkDirty();
+    #if 1
+    {
+        Player* hum = PlayerMgr::Instance()->GetPlayerByAccountId(friendobj->base_data.account_id);
+        if (hum) {
+            hum->AddFriend(&myself);
+        }
+    }
+    #endif
 
     a8::XObject conn_info = DBEngine::Instance()->GetConnInfo(myself.crc32_code);
     DBEngine::Instance()->ExecAsyncScript
@@ -354,6 +362,14 @@ void Player::_CMFriendDelete(f8::MsgHdr& hdr, const cs::CMFriendDelete& msg)
     if (p) {
         friend_hash_.erase(msg.friend_id());
         MarkDirty();
+#if 1
+        {
+            Player* hum = PlayerMgr::Instance()->GetPlayerByAccountId(p->base_data.account_id);
+            if (hum) {
+                hum->RemoveFriend(p->base_data.account_id);
+            }
+        }
+#endif
     }
     respmsg.set_friend_id(msg.friend_id());
     SendMsg(respmsg);
@@ -711,6 +727,32 @@ void Player::InternalSendSSMsg(const Friend& friend_data,
     }
 }
 
+void Player::AddFriend(Friend* p)
+{
+    if (!GetFriendById(p->base_data.account_id)) {
+        Friend* friendobj = new Friend;
+        *friendobj = *p;
+        friendobj->crc32_code = a8::openssl::Crc32
+            (
+             (unsigned char*)friendobj->base_data.account_id.data(),
+             friendobj->base_data.account_id.size()
+             );
+        friendobj->hum = this;
+        friend_hash_[friendobj->base_data.account_id] = friendobj;
+        PlayerMgr::Instance()->WatchPlayer(friendobj);
+    }
+}
+
+void Player::RemoveFriend(const std::string& account_id)
+{
+    Friend* friendobj = GetFriendById(account_id);
+    if (friendobj) {
+        PlayerMgr::Instance()->UnWatchPlayer(friendobj);
+        friend_hash_.erase(account_id);
+        delete friendobj;
+    }
+}
+
 const std::string Player::AccountId()
 {
     return myself.base_data.account_id;
diff --git a/server/imserver/player.h b/server/imserver/player.h
index 19e79db..3603b04 100644
--- a/server/imserver/player.h
+++ b/server/imserver/player.h
@@ -95,6 +95,8 @@ class Player
     void NotifyOffline();
     void NotifyUserInfoUpdate(Friend* friend_data);
     void PushFriendList();
+    void AddFriend(Friend* friendobj);
+    void RemoveFriend(const std::string& account_id);
 
     const std::string AccountId();
 
diff --git a/server/tools/protobuild/cs_msgid.proto b/server/tools/protobuild/cs_msgid.proto
index f1acccf..2c8ca3d 100644
--- a/server/tools/protobuild/cs_msgid.proto
+++ b/server/tools/protobuild/cs_msgid.proto
@@ -64,4 +64,5 @@ enum SMMessageId_e
     _SMUserInfoUpdate = 502;
     _SMCustomMsgNotify = 503;
     _SMUserTempCustomDataUpdate = 504;
+    _SMDeleteFriendNotify = 505;
 }
diff --git a/server/tools/protobuild/cs_proto.proto b/server/tools/protobuild/cs_proto.proto
index 6990024..e88412e 100644
--- a/server/tools/protobuild/cs_proto.proto
+++ b/server/tools/protobuild/cs_proto.proto
@@ -90,6 +90,9 @@ message CMUpdateUserInfo
     optional int64 user_value1 = 50; //用户字段1
     optional int64 user_value2 = 51; //用户字段2
     optional int64 user_value3 = 52; //用户字段3
+
+    optional int32 delay_time = 100; //延迟更新(单位毫秒)
+    optional int32 delay_flag = 101; //延迟更新标志(只能为1-16)，相同的flag定时器覆盖
 }
 
 //获取好友列表
@@ -324,6 +327,9 @@ message CMUpdateTempCustomData
     */
     optional int32 update_type = 1; //更新方式
     optional MFUserTempCustomData temp_custom_data = 2; //临时自定义数据
+
+    optional int32 delay_time = 100; //延迟更新(单位毫秒)
+    optional int32 delay_flag = 101; //延迟更新标志(只能为1-16)，相同的flag定时器覆盖
 }
 
 //用户上/下线通知
@@ -357,6 +363,12 @@ message SMUserInfoUpdate
     repeated MFUserInfo user_infos = 1; //用户信息列表
 }
 
+//删除好友通知a
+message SMDeleteFriendNotify
+{
+    repeated string user_list = 1; //用户列表
+}
+
 //更新用户临时自定义信息
 message SMUserTempCustomDataUpdate
 {
diff --git a/sql/relationdb_n.sql b/sql/relationdb_n.sql
index 00e7937..11be56a 100644
--- a/sql/relationdb_n.sql
+++ b/sql/relationdb_n.sql
@@ -115,11 +115,14 @@ DROP TABLE IF EXISTS `event`;
 /*!40101 SET character_set_client = utf8 */;
 CREATE TABLE `event` (
   `idx` bigint NOT NULL AUTO_INCREMENT COMMENT '自增id',
-  `account_id` varchar(60) CHARACTER SET utf8 NOT NULL COMMENT '事件接受方id',
+  `sender_id` varchar(60) CHARACTER SET utf8 NOT NULL COMMENT '事件发送方id',
+  `target_id` varchar(60) CHARACTER SET utf8 NOT NULL COMMENT '事件接受方id',
   `event_name` varchar(255) CHARACTER SET utf8 NOT NULL COMMENT '事件名',
   `param1` tinyblob COMMENT 'param1',
   `param2` tinyblob COMMENT 'param2',
   `param3` tinyblob COMMENT 'param3',
+  `event_data` mediumblob COMMENT '事件数据',
+  `status` int(11) NOT NULL DEFAULT '0' COMMENT '0:未处理 1:已处理',
   `createtime` int(11) NOT NULL DEFAULT '0' COMMENT '创建时间',
   PRIMARY KEY (`idx`),
   KEY `account_id` (`account_id`)