diff --git a/server/imserver/player.cc b/server/imserver/player.cc
index bdcd04d..ca6290c 100644
--- a/server/imserver/player.cc
+++ b/server/imserver/player.cc
@@ -155,8 +155,8 @@ void Player::_CMFriendApply(f8::MsgHdr& hdr, const cs::CMFriendApply& msg)
              conn_info,
              "INSERT INTO `friend_apply`(applyid, target_id, sender_id, sender_nickname, "
              "   sender_avatar_url, sender_sex, sender_group_id, sender_data_version1, "
-             "   createtime)"
-             "VALUES(%d, '%s', '%s', '%s', '%s', %d, %d, %d, %d);",
+             "   createtime, sender_user_value1, sender_user_value2, sender_user_value3, stauts)"
+             "VALUES(%d, '%s', '%s', '%s', '%s', %d, %d, %d, %d, 0);",
              {
               App::Instance()->NewUUID(),
               msg.friend_id(),
@@ -166,6 +166,9 @@ void Player::_CMFriendApply(f8::MsgHdr& hdr, const cs::CMFriendApply& msg)
               myself.base_data.sex,
               myself.base_data.group_id,
               myself.base_data.base_data_version,
+              myself.base_data.user_value1,
+              myself.base_data.user_value2,
+              myself.base_data.user_value3,
               App::Instance()->nowtime
              },
              a8::XParams(),
@@ -202,6 +205,9 @@ void Player::_CMFriendApplyList(f8::MsgHdr& hdr, const cs::CMFriendApplyList& ms
                     apply.base_data.avatar_url = row[5];
                     apply.base_data.sex = a8::XValue(row[6]);
                     apply.base_data.base_data_version = a8::XValue(row[7]);
+                    apply.base_data.user_value1 = a8::XValue(row[8]);
+                    apply.base_data.user_value2 = a8::XValue(row[9]);
+                    apply.base_data.user_value3 = a8::XValue(row[10]);
                     hum->apply_list_.push_back(apply);
                     if (apply.idx > hum->last_apply_idx_) {
                         hum->last_apply_idx_ = apply.idx;
@@ -237,8 +243,9 @@ void Player::_CMFriendApplyList(f8::MsgHdr& hdr, const cs::CMFriendApplyList& ms
         (
          conn_info,
          "SELECT idx, applyid, target_id, sender_id, sender_nickname, "
-         "  sender_avatar_url, sender_sex, sender_group_id, sender_data_version1 "
-         "FROM friend_apply WHERE idx > %d AND target_id='%s';",
+         "  sender_avatar_url, sender_sex, sender_group_id, sender_data_version1, "
+         "  sender_user_value1, sender_user_value2, sender_user_value3, status"
+         "FROM friend_apply WHERE idx > %d AND target_id='%s' AND stauts=0;",
          {
           last_apply_idx_,
           myself.base_data.account_id
@@ -279,18 +286,66 @@ void Player::_CMFriendAgree(f8::MsgHdr& hdr, const cs::CMFriendAgree& msg)
     friend_hash_[friendobj->base_data.account_id] = friendobj;
     PlayerMgr::Instance()->WatchPlayer(friendobj);
     SendMsg(respmsg);
+
+    a8::XObject conn_info = DBEngine::Instance()->GetConnInfo(myself.crc32_code);
+    DBEngine::Instance()->ExecAsyncScript
+        (
+         conn_info,
+         "UPDATE `friend_apply` SET status=1 WHERE idx=%d AND target_id='%s' AND sender_id='%s';",
+         {
+          msg.apply().idx(),
+          msg.apply().target_id(),
+          msg.apply().base_data().account_id(),
+         },
+         a8::XParams(),
+         nullptr,
+         nullptr,
+         myself.crc32_code
+         );
 }
 
 void Player::_CMFriendRefuse(f8::MsgHdr& hdr, const cs::CMFriendRefuse& msg)
 {
     cs::SMFriendRefuse respmsg;
     SendMsg(respmsg);
+
+    a8::XObject conn_info = DBEngine::Instance()->GetConnInfo(myself.crc32_code);
+    DBEngine::Instance()->ExecAsyncScript
+        (
+         conn_info,
+         "UPDATE `friend_apply` SET status=2 WHERE idx=%d AND target_id='%s' AND sender_id='%s';",
+         {
+          msg.apply().idx(),
+          msg.apply().target_id(),
+          msg.apply().base_data().account_id(),
+         },
+         a8::XParams(),
+         nullptr,
+         nullptr,
+         myself.crc32_code
+         );
 }
 
 void Player::_CMFriendIgnore(f8::MsgHdr& hdr, const cs::CMFriendIgnore& msg)
 {
     cs::SMFriendIgnore respmsg;
     SendMsg(respmsg);
+
+    a8::XObject conn_info = DBEngine::Instance()->GetConnInfo(myself.crc32_code);
+    DBEngine::Instance()->ExecAsyncScript
+        (
+         conn_info,
+         "UPDATE `friend_apply` SET status=3 WHERE idx=%d AND target_id='%s' AND sender_id='%s';",
+         {
+          msg.apply().idx(),
+          msg.apply().target_id(),
+          msg.apply().base_data().account_id(),
+         },
+         a8::XParams(),
+         nullptr,
+         nullptr,
+         myself.crc32_code
+         );
 }
 
 void Player::_CMFriendDelete(f8::MsgHdr& hdr, const cs::CMFriendDelete& msg)